Mapenzi Yalinikubali: How I Won the Heart of the Girl Who Rejected Me
My name is Samuel, and for two years, I loved a woman who did not love me back. Her name was Lydia, the most beautiful lady in our estate in Thika. I tried everything decent — flowers, polite messages, offering help when her car broke down — but she always smiled politely and said, “You are a good man, but not my type.” Those words cut deeper each time I heard them.
Eventually, she started dating a wealthy businessman. I watched from a distance, pretending I was okay, but inside I was breaking. I began questioning my worth as a man. Was I too poor? Too ordinary? Too boring? Sleepless nights became my routine.
One evening, my cousin advised me to visit a doctor known for helping people whose relationships seemed blocked by unseen forces or personal doubts. I went, not to force love, but to understand why rejection hurt so much. During the sessions, I was guided to confront my insecurity and jealousy. There were prayers and symbolic acts of releasing desperation. I was told that love forced through anxiety can never grow.
Weeks later, something unexpected happened. Lydia’s relationship collapsed. This time, I did not rush toward her. I focused on improving myself — I expanded my small electronics shop and regained my confidence.
She began noticing the change in me. We started talking as friends, without pressure. Months later, she admitted she had misjudged me. Today, we are engaged. I learned that sometimes, the real healing is becoming the man you were meant to be.
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