What I Did to Lure My Long-Time Boyfriend to Get into Marriage
I had dated my boyfriend for many years. We loved each other, supported each other, and even planned life together in small ways. But every time I mentioned marriage, he changed the topic.
At first, I pretended not to mind. Later, the silence started hurting. I feared wasting my best years waiting for a promise that might never come.
I did not want to pressure him or threaten to leave.
I wanted clarity, peace, and a clear direction for my life. I asked myself one hard question: Does he fear marriage, or does he fear marrying me? That question pushed me to act wisely, not emotionally.
I began by changing myself not to impress him, but to regain my confidence. I focused on my goals, work, and happiness. I stopped begging for attention and stopped arguing about the future. Surprisingly, this shift caught his attention.
He started noticing the distance and asked what had changed.
Still, I felt there was a deeper block. Something unseen was keeping him stuck in fear and indecision.
A friend who had gone through a similar situation advised me to seek guidance.
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